Welcome To The Place Where Single Ladies Come Together To Support Each Other
Welcome To The Place Where Single Ladies Come Together To Support Each Other
Who doesn't want the best kind of Lifestyle that speaks to who you are from both your inner and outer profile? You know what, the best part about this whole self-awareness/self-discovery thing is, You Know! "Not fake news," you already know. We're not telling you anything, new here, that you do not already know. Question: Who defines you? "You Do," and you're the only person who can determine who you are in this World. OK! OK! You know the World is enormous, and you do not know everyone in the World. So best, we look to define ourselves to the people we do know. Look at this scenario, You're around people all the time, and they do not know you. But you do not find out your people don't really know you until there's an issue, and possibly your life or your livelihood is depending on them knowing you. Now What? The real you doesn't exist anywhere, and no one can validate or support who you say you are. Wow, that's BS, but we've all seen this happen to someone we thought we knew.
Of course, when you're confident and start describing yourself and building your best lifestyle foundation blocks, out of crayons at first. Hey, don't knock coloring, we all began with crayons and pencils, coloring, Right? After a while in life, you'll recognize, almost everything new in your life, starts with coloring and a certain amount of uncertainty. Still, you're coloring, you're building, and for sure, if you stay focused, you'll get better and better. How else does the picture develop? Hello, this is your tomorrow morning wake-up call, coffee?
Oh yeah, now folks will come out from all over the place who will want to tell your story. Well, that's not a bad thing that people want to tell your story, don't worry about that part of it. They may get some of it correct and of course, ad-lib on the other part, don't worry about it. "You Know" you are the Only you who can tell your story to whomever you choose to tell your story. Which takes us back to you do not have to say anything. If you do not want to share or talk about what makes you unique in this World, don't. And as for people who wish to have something else to say about who you are, let them. The more you buy into what others have to say about you. The more confused you could become in trying to defend or live-up to the expectations of other people. Those same folks are taking a break from talking about themselves. Correct us if we're wrong, "Talking about yourself" is the new thing folks enjoy doing. And you look to them to be an exciting person. We do not know who has the Extra for all of that, unless, of course, it's their job to talk about you, well, then, you know that's another story for the bloggers.
You know what, guess what, timing is everything. What about you? Is this a good time for you to become Healthier and Happier with your lifestyle choices and goals? You say all the time you want to eat better. You want to lose weight to fit back into those skinny clothes. You want to exercise more. You want to be a more significant contributor to your community activity programs. You want to have more time for your children, family members, or even your love life. So, what's stopping you from achieving all those achievable wants? Apparently, it's timing. For some darn reason or another, you simply cannot find the time to do all there is you want to do in your personal and professional life. We only have 24 hours in a day, and from what we can tell, it's our personal life that suffers more than our professional life. Our professional life comes with a set of predefined mandatory requirements. Maybe, if our personal life came with predefined mandatory requirements, we'd find more time to accomplish more of those individual goals. Well, guess what? News Flash!
Our personal life does come with a set of predefined mandatory requirements. It just seems we never recognize the mandatory part of it all until forced to face the results from the lack of attention to the matter. Our professional and personal goals are set-up specifically to provide a work-life balance. Yeah, but who has time to even sort out the known and unknown issues related to that "work-life balance, without the same problems becoming a full-blown project? So, what do we do? Well, you can start by congratulating yourself on recognizing and accepting there is an absolute need for change in your current Lifestyle. To become Healthier and Happier requires real work, real commitments, time, and resources. You can say that's the tool kit to supporting a transition into a Healthier and Happier Lifestyle
Look, it's like this, we're not just talking about a real issue of getting Healthier and Happier because we want to hear what we have to say. Single Ladies' Night folks understand how challenging life is to keep-up with eating right, exercise, family, and the stress of it all. Not to mention taking care of all the tangled mental mood swings that speak to your life regularly. Oh OK, out of the millions upon millions of people dealing with something, you're the only person who has it all worked out. If we're to keep it real, we'd all have to admit that we're going through something from time to time. It just seems to be how life works; you go through a period of calm, then a storm, smooth, then another storm. And if you're not experiencing some periodic storms in your life. You're living much too comfortably to have anything genuinely progressive going on. Real-life and goals come with a dose of preset ups and downs, insecurity, fails, tests, and trials. And if life didn't come with some adjustments or uncomfortable moments, it would become routine and uneventful, right? We've' all heard some people say; they like routines. Those same people say they'd choose a regular lifestyle over everything else. Those same people don't want to get involved or take any extra chances. Only one problem, we do not live on this planet alone, and not getting involved may not always be a correct choice.
OK, little kuzzins, little sistah, BFF, and fam, you already know this, so let us remind you. Challenges make us stronger. Challenges move us from level to level. Challenges take life from where you are to where you want to go. If you noticed we didn't say the journey goes from where you are to where you want to be, it's not that simple and easy. In the game, You should never get to exactly where you're going in life; you should always be arriving one or two steps ahead. And you can do this by working at and about your goals, just a little at a time can create great building blocks. However, If you don't set out to get somewhere near Happier and Healthier, you will stand still in one place, your safe place. And then before you know it, you no longer have choices. Timing is everything with this Happier/Healthier thing! And unfortunately, we all have a limited amount of time to work on this issue. So, best we get started to make this our best life. After all, as far as we know, it's the only life we get.
Single Ladies Night folks can guarantee you of one thing; we will all get to the point of respect for our body, soul, and peace of mind as the first steps to our survival. OK, taking care of yourself may sound harsh at this point in the game, nevertheless, if you're the one who ends up on the short end of the stick. You'll start to think twice about how your strength is a vital part of the overall solution. And if you believe we're taking this entire Healthier/Happier thing too far. You may want to watch the Hunger Games, again, check out the parts on how to move in a series of troubled times.
So, What's the practical solution, and how do we move forward? We must connect, we're working on this together. Get your gurl band together, and let's change some things to work in our favor. Please share your comments and thoughts on the current topic or start another conversation. Email: email@example.com, we'd love to hear from you. Nevertheless, this discussion is just the beginning of the conversations we need to have with ourselves and the people who make up our intimate life circles. Everyone must get involved in this talk in order for the discussions to be productive.
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